The most interesting concept in the chapters to me was the idea of violating a norm. While I would like to say that I think the entirety of chapter three was interesting, I don't think that matches the assignment. The idea that we violate something that isn't written, and isn't actually a law or anything, yet the consequences from violating that which isn't written could be just as harsh. For example, it isn't written anywhere that you shouldn't cheat on your partner. However, should you stray from them into someone else's arms, the repercussions are severe. You can lose your partner, or they won't trust you anymore, or a myriad of other consequences if they find out.
Just like in a relationship, group norms vary depending on the group. But it's been my experience that, in general, group norms such as do you part of the work, communicate, and don't cheat are typically what you'll find in any group.
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Hi! Your post was really interesting to read. I also think it is very intriguing how our society and self is shaped by a myriad of un-written rules that should guide our behavior. Some of us decide to follow norms and use it as a map of life, while others chose to openly violate them. It is completely relative whether which one is “good” and which one is “bad”. Our society is difficult because since these are not written, told, or openly shared, it is confusing to know what is proper and what is not proper. In my life, I try to follow the different norms that are presented but I do not conform or live my life strictly following them.
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ReplyDeleteYour response to the "unwritten rules" of violating group norms as it pertains to relationships, reminds me of the Unwritten song by Natasha Bedingfield. You are spot on about certain laws that we as humans (especially in America) adhere to without it being an official law. For me, there are lots of unwritten driving laws that I follow eventhough I didn't have to pass them on a driving test. For example, it is an unwritten law that we as drivers must always use our signals. I typically find other drivers violating this one unwritten rule, so I understand when you apply the unwritten laws in relationships. I agree that there are harsh consequences for violating group norms however small they may be. Good response!